Over the last
several years I've been working with teams from a wide variety
of industries, functions and cultures. Without exception they
have all been eager to discover how to make their management
meetings more effective and engaging.
Here is a quick instrument I have used with teams to assess
whether or not the meetings were effective and engaging. You
might want to consider answering the questions for your own
team.
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Strongly
Disagree
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Disagree |
Agree |
Strongly
Agree |
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Our
meetings focus more on problem-solving than
reporting and informing.
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Everyone is fully engaged.
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Learning is a key outcome of our meetings.
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Our
meetings generate tangible next steps.
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Everyone feels that his/her time was well-spent.
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If you answered
Disagree
or
Strongly Disagree
to three or more of these questions, then here is an exercise
you may want to try out in your next team meeting Peer
Group Coaching.
What is Peer Group Coaching?
Peer Group Coaching
is an engagement strategy that allows peers to ask for help in
addressing strategic challenges or opportunities they face and
to receive that help quickly, effectively and without loss of
face. Strategic challenges and opportunities are numerous but
seldom get the time and attention they deserve in management
meetings. All too frequently most of this precious time is spent
with team members merely reporting what happened or informing
what will happen. Over the years we in LIM have been strong
advocates that this paradigm needs to change. We recommend
Peer Group Coaching as a means of increasing the
level of engagement and fully utilizing the brainpower of a
team.
The first step is to set aside a portion of your meetings for
strategic problem-solving sessions. The Peer Group
Coaching process engages everyone irrespective of
function or role, and results in these important benefits:
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You and your
colleagues can use your meetings to support and challenge
one another in solving current strategic business challenges;
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In the process
you will get a richer appreciation of the challenges your
colleagues are facing;
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And you will
also refine your coaching skills which can be utilized in
any number of situations.
How does it work?
Step 1:
Presentation.
At your next meeting invite one or two of your team members to
bring a current business or organizational challenge with them
to the meeting. Ask them to prepare a 5-minute 'presentation' to
frame the challenge by providing some context, relevant history,
their role, why this challenge is important, what they've
already tried and a focus question that they are currently
contemplating. Ask them to give their challenge a title and
quickly summarize the essence of their challenge by using a flip
chart or by simply talking. Avoid power point in order to keep
the atmosphere informal so it feels more like a coffee break
type of conversation. These types of conversations are generally
more natural and rich.
Step 2:
Questions.
After everyone has heard the challenge, ask everyone, without
discussing the issue, to pretend that this is now their
challenge and write down all the questions that come to their
minds using post-its or a sheet of paper. Encourage them to use
the pronoun "I" instead of "you" as they write their questions.
This reduces defensiveness in the presenter when s/he hears all
the questions. In addition, ask the presenter to also write down
any new questions that came to mind as s/he presented the focus
question.
Encourage them to avoid:
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Examples of poor questions |
Examples of better questions
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Yes/No questions like – Do you know why this
challenge is important to you?
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Why is this challenge important to me? |
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Recommendations disguised as a question like – Have
you talked to 'so and so'?
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Who could I talk to for support? |
After
approximately 5 minutes invite everyone to read his/her
questions without commentary or response from the presenter.
This is simply a time to hear everyone's questions. Begin with
the presenter. Usually the first couple of times a few people
slip into 'you' questions, 'yes/no' questions or 'recommendations' in the guise of a question. Gently ask them to
reframe their questions.
Once everyone has asked his/her questions, request that they
write their names on their post-its or papers and hand them to
the presenter in case s/he wants to follow up.
Step 3:
Offers.
This is an opportunity for everyone to offer a story, idea,
recommendation, website, book, articles or follow up
conversation to the presenter. Once again ask them to use
post-its or paper and after a few minutes simply read out their
offers. This is not the time to tell a story or share the
details of a similar experience or recommendations; it is simply
an offer to share the story, experience or detailed
recommendation at a later time if there is an interest.
For a team of eight a couple of rounds should take no more than
30-40 minutes and requires very light facilitation such as
introducing the exercise, providing the purpose and rationale,
suggesting a couple of norms like we're here to support one
another and to learn with and from one another outlining and
managing the process, and leading the debrief. For teams much
larger than eight, I usually suggest that they divide into two
diverse subgroups and appoint a facilitator.
Step 4: Debrief.
After you've completed the coaching exercise ask the group to
take a couple of minutes to write down their reflections on this
3-step process and then share their thoughts and feelings with a
focus on value, implications and/or applications. Write down a
focus question something like, What are my insights on Peer
Group Coaching related to value, implications and/or
applications? After a few minutes of reflection and writing,
invite the group to have a dialogue. At the end of the dialogue
summarize the themes and ask if there are any next steps that
they want to take.
A Story
Last month I introduced the Peer Group Coaching
process to a senior management team of a Swedish multinational
in India. I was working with them for a day and one of the
exercises was Peer Group Coaching. Three of the
team brought challenges to their teammates. The entire team of
16 coached one of the individuals and then we split into two
groups to work with the other two members.
After the exercise here were some of their reflections:
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It was a
bonding experience because we got to know much more than we
previously did about three of our colleagues and their
problems;
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It allowed us
to do some 'out of the box' thinking;
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I discovered
some blind spots that I wasn't aware of;
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It broke down
barriers between us;
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It was
non-threatening; I felt no defensiveness;
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There was no
need to justify why I did what I did;
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Our
cross-functional approach led to new insights; the diversity
was great;
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I could see how
someone else's problems related to some of mine;
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"I" questions
and open-ended questions were very helpful;
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I could see the
systemic nature of the problems and where I fit in;
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I was surprised
at how many questions we generated in such a short time;
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We were all
fully engaged;
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I will use this
process with my own team.
We ended the
meeting with the question "What is one thing that each of us
will try out as a consequence of today?" Several mentioned that
they would try out Peer Group Coaching with their
own teams.
Summary Comments
Of course, there are many more ingredients that go into
effective and efficient meetings that we need to consider. In
fact, we have addressed some of these in previous LIM News
articles¹. However, making space for Peer Group
Coaching sessions in your regular team meetings will
give your teammates an opportunity to add value and become fully
engaged. After all, that's something we all want. And employee
engagement is one of the easiest frontiers open to us for
maximizing business potential². 
Twenty great coaching questions that I've collected
over the years from similar Peer Group Coaching
sessions
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Why
is this challenge important to me?
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Whose opinions must I consider in solving this
problem?
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Who
has to own the shared future vision for any
solution to work?
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What assumptions must be true before any
solution will succeed?
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What are the key success factors?
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What lessons can I learn from similar
experiences in the past?
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How
did we get here anyway?
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How
did I contribute to this problem?
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How
can I contribute to the solution?
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What mandate do I need in order to be
successful?
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What agreements do I need before I can proceed
with confidence?
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What is already working well?
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What is pulling me forward?
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What supports do I already have?
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Whose support do I need?
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What skills are required to make this solution
work?
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What is holding me back?
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What attitude and self-beliefs do I need in
order to be successful?
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What systems do I need to understand in order to
solve this problem?
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What might happen if I/we did nothing?
This
list is only a beginning. Add your own; borrow from
others and in the process you'll be increasing your
own coaching capability.
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1 More Than Just a Meeting
(http://www.limglobal.net/readings/87.htm);
Successful Off-site Meetings (http://www.limglobal.net/readings/56.htm);
2 Increasing Workforce
Engagement: The New Frontier
(http://www.limglobal.net/readings/83.htm)